How to Be Alone: an 800-mile hike on the Arizona Trail, by Nicole AnToinette
In "How to Be Alone" by Nicole Antoinette, we are introduced to the transformative journey of a 32-year-old novice backpacker, entangled in the clutches of codependency and people-pleasing. It is amidst this very struggle that she sets her sights on a seemingly insurmountable challenge – solo-hiking the formidable 800 miles of Arizona's rugged trail.
One cannot help but be drawn to the compelling question that guides her through this arduous odyssey: "What do we find when we push ourselves further than we ever thought we could go?"
As Nicole embarks on this cathartic adventure, she unravels a profound exploration of the privilege that comes with the ability to choose one's own suffering. It is within the unforgiving embrace of nature that she seeks to reclaim her self-belief and inner strength, discovering a sense of empowerment she never believed possible.
Amidst the vast wilderness and solitude, "How to Be Alone" unveils a journey of introspection, providing us with invaluable insights into the art of becoming a better friend to oneself. As the miles pass beneath her feet, Nicole grapples with the complexities of solitude and uncovers a newfound appreciation for the company of her own thoughts and emotions.
“Nicole’s style has the ability to say, “Come on, let’s go,” and bring the reader along. I’m inspired by her drive, and recall Ernest Shackleton saying he always heard the “lure of little voices,” when he wasn’t out exploring. Nicole's narrative beckons us to ponder the profound relationship we have with ourselves and the world around us. It resonates with those who seek the courage to venture into the unknown, encouraging us to embrace solitude as an opportunity for self-discovery and profound personal growth.”
~ Marc